The Ongoing Gratitude Date!

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When was the last time you thanked your spouse? For making the bed, helping with dishes, watching the children, or working all day? Now is the time to start thanking your spouse a part of your weekly date night. Have a notebook beside your bed or wherever you will remember to write in it. At the end of the day take one minute and write down a reason you are thankful for your spouse. It shouldn’t be the same every day. Sometime during your date night, share a few reason you are thankful for your spouse, and have them do the same. This is also a great time for communication. For example, “I’m grateful you took the kids while I finished dinner, if you could continue to do that when you can I would really appreciate it,” Your spouse can do the same with you. Being grateful shows that you see the good that your spouse is doing and not just seeing where they lack. This activity doesn’t have to be limited to just once a week, however, if you aren’t in the habit of expressing that gratitude, this is a great way to start!

iFly- Indoor Skydiving

People love to skydive. I never really understood why, but I wanted to know what all the hype was about. If you have had similar feelings check out iFly Indoor Skydiving. There is no stress of jumping out of a plane, or worrying about a parachute. With indoor skydiving, you are wearing a jump suit, googles and helmet, and are put in a vertical wind tunnel. It is safe, fun and gives you the same adrenaline rush as real skydiving. This is a great date to do with your spouse, and will give both of you and instant high for the rest of the day, and maybe even a few days after.

For more information visit: iFly- Indoor Skydiving

Relationship Reconnection!

Relationships have their ups and downs. It is part of life, and part of the learning experience. How do you view your spouse during easy and difficult times? How well do you handle positive and negative situations with your spouse? Discuss these questions together, and see where improvement can be made together. 

Library Activities- Beyond the Check-out

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There is more to do in a library or bookstore besides checking out items. Below are a list of activities to do together that will cost nothing! This can also be done in a bookstore, and while there, grab some drinks or pastries.

1.     Find your favorite book as a child, then read them to each other.

2.     Look through some cookbooks and find a meal you would enjoy making together.

3.     Pick out a joke book and share the best ones with each other.

4.     Choose 3-4 random books. Have a conversation with each other, but only use lines from those books.

For information on your local libraries visit: Los Angeles Public Library

Revitalize that Relationship!

Remember that marriage is give and take. Make sure to find time to talk with your spouse about the balance in your relationship. One person should not have to carry the whole load. Discuss the following points with each other:

-What do I do for my spouse on a daily, weekly, monthly basis?

-What does my spouse do for me on a daily, weekly, monthly basis?

-What do I appreciate most about my spouse?

-Ask your spouse, Where can I improve in our relationship?

Fall in Love, with This Questionaire

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Okay, so you aren’t really going to fall in love with the questionnaire, but hopefully be more in love with your spouse. A study was done to explore intimacy levels between two strangers. During this study couples had a list of questions to ask and answer. They rated their intimacy level with their fellow participant before and after the questionnaire. Many couples rated their intimacy levels higher after engaging in the questionnaire together. It takes 20-30 minutes to ask each other these questions. It is a great way to spend time together, and get to know each other all over again.

Here is the link to the questions: 36 Questions

Playdough isn't Just for Kids

Sometimes it’s fun to feel like a carefree kid; wind in your hair, dirt on your clothes and a smile on your face. But how many of us have a time machine? A good way to feel like a kid again is by playing with playdough. Many childhood memories were created with our hands, either in paint, dirt or toys. Revisit those memories with this homemade playdough recipe. It’s easy and inexpensive.

1 part Hair Conditioner or Shaving Cream

2 parts Cornstarch

Food Coloring if desired

Cookie cutters for fun shapes

Just mix all of these ingredients together in a bowl, and then knead them with your hands. It’s that simple. For softer dough, add more hair conditioner or cream. For chalkier dough, add more cornstarch. Warning, it can be messy and wearing black isn’t recommended, but it sure is fun to feel like a kid again.  

Revitalize that Relationship!

Ask your spouse these three questions about their childhood, and answer them yourself:

·       What was your favorite childhood toy?

·       What is a fun memory you have with your family as a child?

·       How can we create fun memories for our children?

Make sure not to worry about the mess or washing your hands. Just enjoy the date with your spouse and learn more about them.

Homemade Body Paint – Parent Date Night

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Sometimes, as a parent, we hear about great safe activities for our children. One idea is a homemade nontoxic paint, but we want to make sure it works. What a great idea for a date with your spouse! The recipe is simple:

2 tsp. Cornstarch

1 tsp. lotion

1 tsp. water

Food Coloring

* This recipe is good for 1 body paint color.

This paint is safe to go on skin and washes off! With this in mind, you can make a game out of your new creation of body paint. Before getting your hands dirty, make a list of objects you should paint on each other, letters, shapes, scenery or your favorite cartoon characters. Toss all of these ideas into a bowl, and take turns picking out an object to paint on the other person. You can wear an old or cheap white shirt, although there is no guarantee the paint will wash out. Have fun together being creative and laughing.

Revitalize that Relationship!

If you are a parent, discuss with your spouse about each of your children, sharing fun memories of them and how you can help them in their future activities. If you do not yet have children, discuss how you want to help your children to become their best selves. 

Can you Escape?

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A fun date is the Escape Room L.A.! “What is that?” you may be asking yourself, well let me explain. Escape Rooms are starting to pop up all over the country. Each is different but they all have the same premise. You have a team of up to 10-12 people per escape room. You can bring a big group of friends or family, or be paired up with other couples. You have one hour to be in a room together, filled with puzzles and clues, to solve the mystery. You get more information when you sign up and actually talk with the people who work there. It is a fun and unique date while being a little out of your comfort zone. It is 100% safe and reviewers are raving about them. They book fast so make sure to plan in advanced. This one is specifically located in downtown L.A., but you can find one closer to you because they are all over southern California

To book a time or learn more, check out their website: Escape Room L.A.

Would You Rather...

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When we think of dates, we usually think about big ideas that tend to cost money. Dates like those are nice, and help to build great memories with your spouse. But what about those weeks where you are seemingly too busy for a date? Play a little game called "Would You Rather." Take a half hour, sit down together and try and answer the following questions. These questions are for fun, a great way to laugh and spending time with each other in a hopefully novel way.

WOULD YOU RATHER…

-Be half your height, or double your weight?

-Fight a horse sized duck, or 100 duck sized horses?

-Live in the world of Harry Potter or Narnia?

-Have a zombie apocalypse or WWIII?

-Be super-fast or super strong?

-Have no internet, or no phone?

-Change the past, or see into the future?

-Be invisible, or fly?

-Lose sense of touch or taste?

-Be able to talk to all animals or be able to speak all languages?

Revitalize that Relationship!

Life can be hectic and your relationship may be the last thing on your To Do List. However, marriage can be an uphill battle. Research shows that once kids enter the picture, marital satisfaction goes down and continues that pattern until the children leave (at which time marital satisfaction goes back up). You can’t afford to slip away from each other. Even taking an hour a week to just be together can strengthen your marriage, and help fight the odds.

Grom Gelato

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If you've ever talked to anyone who's been to Italy one thing they're sure to say is, "The gelato there is way better than anything I've ever had here." Now, I don't know about you, but this always makes me feel like I'm missing out on something big and for someone who loves ice cream in all it's many forms, that's unacceptable. Sadly, traveling to Italy just to try their gelato is also out of the question, so imagine my great surprise and excitement when I stumbled upon Grom, a gelato place started in Italy itself. With farm fresh ingredients that they grow on a farm that they own, you can taste the goodness in every bite! With relatively few locations outside of Italy (as of right now...) there is no way that you can pass up this opportunity! This gelato is amazing and it has two great locations in Los Angeles, one in Hollywood and one in Malibu. These two locations make it the perfect stop while you're on the way to something else (of course, it always works as a destination in and of itself too...), you can stop in, grab a scoop or two and still hit up some of the iconic Los Angeles sites. 

Corral Canyon Hike

Beautiful Corral Canyon Hike starts right out of the parking lot of Malibu Seafood and takes you up to sweeping vistas of Malibu seashores as you make your way back on this short 2.4 mile loop. This hike starts out in a little bit of a gully and leads you up a hill (make sure to choose the left as you come to the fork, otherwise you miss the views of the ocean as you come back!). As you crest the hill and start on your way back you are treated to beautiful, unimpeded views of blue ocean and clear skies. This hike is truly not to be missed, it is a gem!

The best part is, after the hike you can have lunch at one of the best seafood places that Malibu has to offer, Malibu Seafood! You can turn it into an whole day affair by relaxing at the beach afterwords and soaking in some rays. This hike is great for those who love hiking as well those who don't. It's short enough that you don't feel too exhausted by the end, but you feel worked out and you have an incredible view to enjoy on the way down. If this blogger could recommend just one hike in the area, this would be it. It truly represents the area and all it has to offer. Good luck and have fun!

Runyon Canyon

Runyon Canyon is another one of those hikes with an incredible vista that also happens to be in the middle of the city. Seriously though, you pull up to a bunch of apartment complexes and there, tuck back in the back is this hike that leads you up an into a small canyon with great vantage points over Los Angeles. Located in Hollywood area you get the true flavor of Los Angeles here with a mix mash of people and pets, all who are ready and willing to give you a smile and a word of encouragement. This hike is a loop and the hiker can either choose to go up the stairs and down the hill, or vice versa (which happens to be what this hiker did and does not recommend). While the stairs don't rest on the edge of any precipice, they are rather steep and can be tricky when coming down). The hike definitely gets your blood pumping, but it's a comfortable level of exertion and it's also relatively short. (And to reward yourself at the end go ahead and stop by Milk Jar Cookies for an amazing treat!)

Feel like you don't know what you would talk about on a hike? Well, this blogger thinks that the sweeping cityscapes and friendly people will give you more than enough to chat about, but if all else fails you could always discuss what kind of dog you would want if you were to ever get a dog. This popular hike is dog friendly and more hikers than not have their furry companions with them. With new subjects to talk about constantly passing by, you're sure to never run out of something to say.

La Brea Tar Pits

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Who knew that in the depths of the city there would be one of the world's greatest repositories of ice age fossils that are constantly being uncovered?! At the La Brea Tar Pits you get to learn about what makes the area unique and how it has manage to capture tens of thousands of years of history in its depths. At the museum you can choose to pay a little extra and watch their new 3D film "Titans of the Ice Age." You can opt to do a guided tour, or you can show yourself around the museum and the grounds. As you learn more about the area, you will come to revel in the long history that is associated with the area. The museum grounds are beautiful and are inviting to walk around in and even spread out a picnic. The museum also happens to be next to the Los Angeles County Museum of Art, if you wanted to make a day of museum hopping.
If you're looking for something to do while at La Brea try picking out your pre-historic spirit animal :) (I mean, how cool would be it to be able to say afterwards that your spirit animal is a Smilodon fatalis, or the dire wolf). Have fun!

Mateo's Ice Cream and Fruit Bars

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With the heat wave that has hit the city there's never too many options for spots to cool off. This most recent find has incredible Mexican style fruit bars as well as ice cream, smoothies, and chocolate covered bananas. While the fruit pops come in many classic flavors (including some of the ice cream flavors), they also have flavors like horchata and cactus fruit, making it easy to mix things up add all the different ice cream flavors in and you have reason to go back over and over again. The staff is incredibly helpful and are more than willing to give you samples of all the different flavors. For a fun activity, strike a deal to split two pops and get one flavor you both know that you'll love and get another flavor that is a bit adventurous, this way there's no pressure if you're not a huge fan of the new flavor, you'll still get some of the classic one. 

Grand Californian Hotel

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If Disney is at all your thing, Disneyland's Grand Californian hotel is the place to stay. Of all the dates that have been listed thus far, this may be the most splurge-y, but it is worth it! With the perks of incredible location, magic hours (in other words, early entrance into the parks), and great accommodations all around it offers enjoyment for those that travel there with families, as well as those looking for a more romantic vibe. The Grand Californian is a hotel that caters to all different groups. It has wonderful pools with water slides, should you desire more active pool time, as well as pools that are dedicated to lounging and relaxing. Along with luxurious pools, the Grand California offers great food with restaurants such as Napa Rose (see the previous blog post for more information), room service, and the Storyteller's Cafe, not to mention the fact that just a walk outside the hotel takes you to Downtown Disney, which is full of great restaurants and other fun shops. Truly, Disney's Grand Californian is a great mix of fun, luxury, and practicality and is the perfect spot to have a getaway!

Sweet Beverly Crepes

Seriously though, how could it get any better between a great crepe and a backdrop like this?!

Do you ever just want to get out on the town, but don't want to pay an arm and a leg to do it? Located in picturesque Hollywood area, Sweet Beverly Crepes offers the scenes of the beautiful area surrounding it, but a price that ensures that you will continue to enjoy the evening. Offering a menu of both sweet and savory crepes, you're sure to find something that suits both your needs at this crepe stop (or you can make a it a two course meal for you both should you chose to). Also offering soft served gelato (which is to die for!), and a select few other baked goods, there is something for everyone and any level of hunger at Sweet Beverly Crepes.

**Should you be looking for recommendations, the BBQ chicken crepe and the nutella crepe are both excellent choices!

If you are looking for a conversation starter for your date look in the stores as you pass by and pick out one designer thing that you would either a). love to splurge for if you had the money or b). never buy in a million years.

Weekend Getaway: Lake Arrowhead

One amazing thing about Los Angeles, and California in general, is that in a relatively short amount of time you can completely leave one type of climate and be in a complete different one. While Los 

Angeles and the cities surrounding it are thriving, industrious cities, just a little less than two hours away is Lake Arrowhead, a peaceful, serene breath of fresh air up in the mountains. Lake Arrowhead itself has a picturesque and quaint little town around it with some shops, boats, and tours that can all entertain a tourist for a day. However, the landscape and the many wonders that it offers is something that one could enjoy for a lifetime. With trails winding through beautiful forest and scenic overlooks that make it feel as though you really have reached the rim of the world, the outdoor adventures offered here are not to be missed! Whether you choose to stay at some of the local campsites (this blogger can personally vouch for Dogwood campsite #34), or to stay at one of the pristine inns in the area, you are sure to feel as though you have escaped the big city life and made it to a far off getaway. 

While on your getaway, take turns picking the activities. While the towns in the area are somewhat small, they do offer a lot, not only in the way of outdoor adventures, but also luxuries like spa treatments; so, truly make it a getaway for both of you by taking the time to do activities that one another is interested in. Who knows, by spending time together doing the things you like together you may come back with more than just a renewed vigor for the hectic city pace, you could come back with strengthened and happier relationship as well!

Zuma Beach

Malibu, California, need I say more? Zuma Beach is one of the best beaches in Malibu area for just relaxing. With a wide stretch of beautiful golden sand, you're sure to be able to find a spot to your self to sit back and enjoy; and with Malibu's signature waves, you can be guaranteed the soothing noise of crashing waves to help you in your quest to unwind. Should you be so daring, those waves also make for great surfing, body-surfing, and all all around fun as well! Zuma beach has designated all-day pay parking that allows you to come and go during the day (should you be interested in visiting other sites), or you can park on the PCH, if you're able to find a spot, for free (although it's a little more of a walk). Enjoy soaking up some rays together and enjoy one of the gens that Malibu has to offer!

Milk Jar Cookies

We've all been there, the search for the perfect cookie recipe and, as luck would have it, Milk Jar Cookies was founded on just that, the perfect cookie. No matter what time you show up at Milk Jar Cookies (granted that it's within their business hours) you can be assured of a freshly baked cookie; that's because the cookie shop bakes their cookies in small batches, continually, throughout the day. This, combined with great ingredients, wonderful recipes (that call for large size cookies), and a cup of cold milk make for a great informal date.

*If you're looking for an idea for your date, you could try having your date pick out the cookie that they think best describes you (while you pick out one for them). Then, as you are enjoying your cookies, explain why you picked the cookie you did for your date!

Napa Rose

Do you ever have need to celebrate a special occasion, but you don't quite know how to go about it? Napa Rose is an incredible restaurant inside the Grand Californian hotel with farm fresh ingredients, the menu changes as the seasons do, always giving you a reason to come back for more. The combination of a beautiful setting, delectable food, and excellent service is sure to make your dinner there one to remember. 

When food is good, no one wants to miss out on a spectacular dish, maybe try coordinating your meals on your date so that you can each get a taste of the things you want. If you're splitting, pick out the different courses together, if you aren't talk about your top picks and try and get something you're both excited about. Exchanging a few bites is a great way to get conversation going as you compare and contrast what you think about the meal. 

*Make sure if you are celebrating a special event to call in your reservation to tell them, Napa Rose is great about making whatever event is special to you special to them, and it's just another way to make a great day even better. 

B Sweet Dessert Bar

As far as desserts go, ask anyone and bread pudding might not be the first to come up on the list. However, one stop to B Sweet Dessert Bar and that will all change! With a selection of flavors offered everyday, two sizes offered, and a scoop of ice cream on top even the most hardened bread pudding hater will be singing a different tune (there may be personal experience to back this one up). But even if you're not convinced that bread pudding is the way for you to go, B Sweet has a TON of other options including (but not limited to) two different types of brownies (the fudgiest and the slutiest), banana chocolate chip bread, and my personal favorite, the ice cream sandwich hot pressed inside of a glazed donut. Ah-mazing! Last of all, B Sweet has a super comfortable vibe, which makes it ideal for taking some time to chat as you enjoy you dessert delicacies. 

Make sure your date contains this most important aspect, catch up time! Life gets so busy that it's important to make sure that you're taking time for the two of you while you're in the midst of the chaos. 

Enjoy!

M I L K

It seems like new dessert creations are popping up all over the place and Milk has definitely put their own stamp on the classic macaroon. Having created incredible ice cream flavors, Milk has started sticking their creamy creations in between two macaroon cookies, making a macaroon ice cream sandwich; with classic flavors like mint chip, vanilla bean, and chocolate along with flavors like fruity pebbles, Meyer lemon, and blackberry crumble pie, there's something for everyone. However, Milk doesn't stop there! Milk also offers incredible shakes and sundaes, along with a selection of baked goods (their most notable being the blue velvet cake); stopping in once will only encourage you to stop in more. A favorite of many celebrities, it's worth venturing to try at least once (and who knows, you, like many others before you may be hooked!). With the mixture of both classic and exotic, you and your date can sample your way through a few different items to discover which ones are your favorites!

*Milk is a great option for those who have just completed the Mulholland Drive date, as Mulholland Drive is only about ten minutes away.

Muholland Drive

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Mulholland Drive is a great one hour get away that takes you to some great overlooks over the city of Los Angeles. While the road can be traveled from east to west or west to east, traveling west to east gives you the chance to look out over the Hollywood bowl, as well as downtown Los Angeles. The Hollywood Bowl lookout is one of the most popular of the drive and is only accessible when driving from this direction. Along with that, driving west to east plunks you down in the middle of Hollywood, leaving you the chance to find some great places to eat if you'd like to add that to your date.
While spending an hour in the car together might not sound like the most romantic date ever, it does allow you to spend some quality time. Keep the music low and use this time to catch up and chat. This is even a date that you could consider doing with littles if you think that they may fall asleep in the car seat (we all know how precious time to chat can become once a little enters the picture). Overall, this is just a relaxing and chill date. You get a chance to see the city from a perspective that you probably haven't seen it from before (Mulholland Drive snake right along a ridge, giving you a more aerial perspective than from many other parts of the city). Should you choose to add another activity to it like dinner or a treat, it's just icing on the cake, but this is a date that doesn't take much planning and can be done on pretty much a moments notice. So while you may not want to plan it for a big anniversary date or anything, it can definitely be stored for a later date when you and your spouse just want a little quality time together.

Aquarium of the Pacific

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With dazzling displays and a wide variety of wild life, who wouldn't enjoy their time at the Aquarium of the Pacific? For many films like Finding Nemo are the only glimpse that they've had into the underwater world. The Aquarium of the Pacific delves into that world, giving anyone who enters a comprehensive (and obviously condensed) look at the many different habitats that can be found throughout the vast Pacific Ocean. Even for those who are huge animal or aquatic fans, this place is definitely a great place to visit. The displays are such that they are engaging and easy to get to; with shows going on throughout the day, there is sure to be something that will capture your interest. The aquarium also offers great exhibits where, should you chose to, you are able to touch some marine life; these exhibits include moon jellies, sharks, rays, and starfish and anemones. While it is a place that attracts a lot of families, it's also a great educational date. See who can find the oddest fact, be the bravest while touching all the animals, or get all of the stamps for the stamp book included on the map. The aquarium also has several eating options ranging from smoothies and ice cream to full meals. Food brought from home is also allowed, just look for the open terraces to eat on (coincidentally they are great places to eat no matter if you brought or bought your food, most people stick to the indoor eating areas, leaving these areas mostly uncrowded). Also make sure that you validate your parking on your way in or out, without doing so you  will pay a pretty penny for the nearby structures! With all the beauty and knowledge that the Aquarium of the Pacific has to offer, it is certainly not a date to be missed!

Kenneth Hahn State Park

You know those long summer afternoons when life seems to be passing slowly and you want to do something but nothing at the same time (hey, they don't call them the "lazy, hazy, crazy days of summer for no reason!")? Kenneth Hahn State Park is the perfect place to escape to have one of those lazy summer days. Complete with grills, a manmade lake (with many a duck resident), and lots of open space, it provides you with the perfect opportunity to do as much or as little as you desire while you're there. You could take an evening stroll, pausing to feed the ducks, or you could enjoy a heart-pumping hike on your way up the hill in the park that leads to a vista of the city. This park is great for an intimate group or a large party, it could support a date for two or a date for twenty, it's open space and amenities make it very compatible. So whether you're looking for an intimate evening with just the two of you, or you're looking for a place to have a night with friends, Kenneth Hahn State Park is a place well suited for you.

Crimson

Crimson is an amazing little place right in Santa Monica that has incredible Mediterranean style food. With choices for the vegetarian to those who prefer a meatier option, this place is sure to please. With authentic Mediterranean sides, you can complement your meal while your imagination runs wild taking you to far off places. The servers here are friendly and more than willing to help an indecisive soul (if they suggest the white meat kabob just know that this blogger whole heartedly agrees!). They also offer lots of incredible looking desserts to add the perfect end to your meal. Since this menu has so many tasty things to try maybe work out a split system with your date. Crimson offers so many sides that it seems like a  shame not to try them all. By working together, you each can try a little of a couple of sides (which can also provide a topic of conversation for the date as you compare and contrast, should you be looking for something to talk about :) ).

Malibu Seafood

Living so close to the ocean, one assumes that there's fresh seafood a plenty; while this is most definitely true, ferreting out the best places takes work (albeit pleasant work)! Malibu Seafood definitely deserves it's spot in the sunshine as one of the best places to get fish and chips in the area. Located right on the PCH Malibu Seafood is a seafood market where you can by fresh fish to cook at home, but also has incredible seafood that you can eat in the open air patio right next to the restaurant. Enjoy hand-battered Alaskan Cod (which is delightfully crunchy and served with a tasty tartar sauce!) while looking out over the beautiful crashing waves of Malibu, the beach is literally right across the road, making for pleasant viewing. A great activity to do with this date is the Corral Canyon hike, which starts out of the parking lot of Malibu Seafood; pick it as a pre or post dinner activity, but there's no doubt that the sweeping vistas of the 2.4 mile loop will give you a lot to talk about! 

Baldwin Hills Scenic Overlook

When living in Los Angeles, it's easy to feel like you have to travel out of the city to get in touch with nature, besides the planned green spaces of parks and the like, there couldn't possibly be anywhere that offered any sort of outdoor recreation, right? Wrong! Baldwin Hills Scenic Overlook is right in the middle of Culver City and it offers anyone a steep ascent to a great overlook of the city of Los Angeles. The hike can be done following the trail of switchbacks up to the top or, you can pick the ambitious set of the stairs leading straight to the top. Whichever path you chose, the view is definitely worth it. You can spend a few minutes relaxing at the top and head back down or continue on some of the shorter trails the lead off over the hills. This is a popular hike for locals and is filled with encouraging people to help you on your way to the top. There is parking available at the bottom of the hill, both metered and unmetered, but you may have to wait for a bit for a spot to open up. Enjoy you trip out of the city (without even leaving)!

Ugo

Located in downtown Culver City, this Italian eatery offers excellent food surrounded by an engaging and fun ambiance. Cafe Ugo's speciality is in Naples style pizza, which is an excellent size for two to split (or each get their own with left overs). After the main course you can top off your meal with some tasty gelato. Cafe Ugo has an incredible happy hour deal of pizzas starting at $5 from 5-7 on weekday nights (this is over a 50% discount for some the pizzas offered!). Parking is relatively cheap in the surrounding area (with validation you can get 2-3 hours free), and there are a couple of parking structures close by. 

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Rekindle, Revitalize, and ReconnectSince this place has amazing gelato, have you and your hunny take turns sampling different flavors. Once you're ready have your spouse order the flavor that they thought you enjoyed the most from those that you sampled. See if you can both get your top choice.
*Ugo has offered a free gelato with Yelp! check in, so your date activity could potentially be free!*

Randy's Donuts

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There are some things that are just so iconic about a city that you have to do them at least once; this is the case with Randy's donuts. Having served the Los Angeles area for more than 50 years, Randy's has become as much a part of the local scene as the Hollywood sign and the Santa Monica pier. Having made several movie appearances, this well know donut shop and sign promise fresh made delights and a piece of history with every bite. Randy's has a standard menu, allowing you to try your way through them all to find your go-to donut. Randy's is also open 24/7 allowing you to get your donut fix anytime during the day or night. So, what are you waiting for?! Head out with your sweetheart tonight and and enjoy!

Rekindle, Revitalize and Reconnect

Since this date is all about the sweets, spend some time talking about the sweet things you most appreciate your hunny doing for you. Not only can this be a great reminder of all the things that they actually do do for you, but it's also a great way to understand how you can better serve your spouse. The book, The Five Love Languages explains how we each feel love differently, so you may find that something you didn't even think was a big deal actually means a lot to your special someone. Maybe throughout the week you can find ways to work these little acts of service into you time together. Nothing keeps a marriage alive like little acts of service!

Brian's Shave Ice

What with the heat wave sweeping through the city there are times that nothing sounds better than a cold, refreshing...something. With a veritable mountain of shaved and flavored ice (with ice cream in the middle should you so choose), Brian's Shave Ice is sure to satisfy your craving! With some of the softest shave ice in the area and some of the greatest flavors, you're sure to love whatever combination you choose. *As a bonus, you can get (Disney lovers beware!) the Dole Whip pineapple sorbet in the middle to add the perfect compliment to any pairing.* SO, take a few minutes to cool down this summer and hit up Brian's Shave Ice for a date to remember.

Rekindle, Revitalize, and Reconnect
Did you know that a pattern in healthy couples is to take time to connect each day? It doesn't have to be anything grandiose or extreme, it can be as simple as having a conversation. Since this date is all about cooling down in the summer, why not talk about your summer's as kids?! Who knows, maybe you'll get to know something about you spouse that you didn't know before! Whatever you do, enjoy this tasty treat and the time together that you have!

Disneyland

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The place where dreams come true is truly a great place for a date! While this isn't technically in Los Angeles, it's a mere hop, skip, and a jump (and sometimes a traffic jam) away. If you're a local, you probably have a annual pass and if you're not, who could come so close and not go?! There is tangible Disney magic in the air and you're sure to have a great time. While most people have probably been there before, here's a few ideas to spice it up for a date night:

Thunder Mountain: Keep your eye on the goat with the stick of dynamite in its mouth for an extra thrilling ride!

Hit up the Ghirardelli's chocolate shop for a free chocolate square

Stop by Boudin's for a slice of sour dough bread

Have a competition for the highest score at Midway Mania-be sure to check out these easter eggs to boost your scores! 

Get in touch with your artsy side at the Animation Studios-take a short sit down break and learn to draw a Disney character. While you're hear be sure to check out Turtle Talk with Crush, it so totally rocks! (dude!)

Throughout the day have a funny face contest on each of the rides. Take a picture of each of your best ones.

Stop by City Hall and answer a trivia question to become an Honorary Citizen of Disneyland

Head to the Enchanted Tiki Room and get a Dole Whip while waiting to get inside (way better than waiting the 45 minutes in the line outside the attraction). 

See who can name more of the countries referenced in the It's a Small World attraction.

Read about Hidden Mickeys and see who can find more throughout the day.

Have the best corn dog of your life on Main Street USA

See if you can become the rebel spy on Star Tours (make sure to follow all the instructions that your given by the cast member)

Battle one another on Buzz Lightyear Astroblasters

Find a romantic area (amidst the waiting crowds) to enjoy the fireworks and parade together

Mendocino Farms

Every once and a while you stumble upon a place to eat that is so good that it becomes your go to place. It's somewhere you can rely on getting great food every time and somewhere you take all your friends. Mendocino farms is such a place. Should you and your spouse choose to stop by, be it for lunch or dinner, you can rest assured you will thoroughly enjoy your food. Mendocino Farms focuses on incredible artisan sandwiches catering to many different food preferences (veggie, gluten-free), as well as offering different salads and soups. Their cane sugar sodas are also not to be missed. In short, anything that you pick up here is sure to please the tastebuds and leave you coming back for more (and frequently!). There are several locations so you can find the one that's best for you, be aware though that you'll only catch it without a line if you're lucky, this is a popular place! However, the line gives you extra time to talk (and to decide which delectable sandwich you want to order) and the line moves quickly, so don't be dissuaded. 

If you're looking for something to do on your date, let the casual atmosphere of the restaurant be your guide; keep your conversation casual, take this time to catch up on the day and the planned events for the rest of the week. Did you know that it's the little daily conversations that have the biggest impact on our relationships? Even though you may not feel like you discuss anything very profound, keeping tabs on the little ups and downs of life can do more for your relationship than an exotic trip or a marathon date. Enjoy the novelty of doing something simple (and delicious)!

Six Flags Magic Mountain

Are you and your spouse looking for a thrill? As far as thrilling roller coasters go in California, Six Flags Magic Mountain takes the cake! With rides for all different comfort levels, you're sure to find one that's right for you; the park's map is conveniently keyed with the rides' various thrill levels so you can be sure you're not getting in over your head. With coasters that seat you in everything from flying to standing positions, the variety offered in the park is remarkable and with affordable rates and great deals offered, there's no reason to not test your nerves of steel here at least once (and let's be honest, feeling like you've just survived something extreme has an odd way of brining people closer together...a perfect by product for a date!). While you're waiting in line you can spend some time reconnecting with renowned psychologist and relationship researcher John Gottman's Love Map 20 Questions exercise (click here). Taking time to do this together can help you to recognize if you and your spouse are connecting in the important ways both day to day, as well as overall (and what can be more thrilling than that?!). 

Descanso Gardens

Photo cred: AOL Travel

Living in Los Angeles it's sometimes easy to forget that the plants that the plants around us are actually not native to the area (although there's no doubt that just about anything and everything thrives here). However, Descanso Gardens was founded to preserve that natural Southern California beauty; it offers acres upon acres of beautiful land to roam through and with features with ponds, waterfalls, rose gardens, and pagodas, there's no doubt that it's a beautiful refuge. With events continually on going (such as jazz music nights and the upcoming carved pumpkin festival) there's certain to be something that tickles your fancy. If you're lucky, while you're visiting you may even see some wedding festivities going on! This can be a great segue to talking about that happy event in your own lives. If you're already married talk about what you remember from your big day; who was there? did anything funny happen? what were your thoughts when you saw each other for the first time that day? Go over any details that stand out in your mind. Talking about past special occasions  can be a way to reignite the spark in the here and now. If you haven't gotten married yet, maybe take some time (if appropriate) to talk about your future plans. You can talk in vague generalities or get as specific as mentioning the decor for your own wedding. Whatever you end up doing, enjoy the beautiful surroundings and take full advantage of this time with your main squeeze.

For more info on admission prices and upcoming events please visit: https://www.descansogardens.org

Santa Monica Airport

View from the observation deck. Photo cred: michaelsikovcom

View from observation deck. Photo cred: LA weekly

There has been many a song written about sitting and watching airplanes take off into the sunset and as romantic as it sounds, it doesn't seem to be a reality anymore in our times. What with high security measures at airports it seems the closest you can get is a couple miles away, at best. However, this is not the case at Santa Monica Airport. This small, private airport has an observation deck open to the public that is right on the airstrip! As you sit, you may see anything from a small one man airplane take off to a private jet (and everything in-between). Helping the ambiance the airport pipes in the communication between the air traffic control and the pilots. This combined with the friendly crowd that this airport typically attracts makes it a fun place to come and visit. While there you could both share about your dream vacations; where would you like to go and what would you like to do? While some of the more exotic trips may be out of reach for a while, it can be fun to dream and to see if you have any places that match up. Who knows, maybe your dreams will turn into a reality someday! After watching the planes you can look up fun place to eat that relates to somewhere you talked about going, this airport is located in the middle of some great restaurants, so you have some great picks for excellent ethnic cuisine. Here are just a few suggestions:

Crimson-Mediterranean Restaurant

Euro Deli-Mart Lituanica-Lithuania/European market and deli

Sunny Blue-Japanese

Satdha Plant-Based Thai Kitchen-Thai

Border Grill-Mexican

Marvin Braude Bike Trail

This well know bike trail runs most of the length of the beaches in Los Angeles; from Pacific Palisades to Torrance, it run along some of the most beautiful scenery Los Angeles has to offer. The northern half of the trail hits the well known areas of Muscle Beach and Santa Monica Pier, while the southern path hits the pristine beaches of Marina and Playa Del Rey. No matter what way you end up traveling on the trail you are sure to enjoy beautiful views of crashing waves and sandy beaches, as well as a healthy dose of entertaining people watching. You and your spouse are sure to have a good time. If you don't have a bike, or don't want to pack it down to the beach there's no need to worry, there are several great options for bike rentals along the route. *

Now biking and beautiful surroundings (and a little exercise thrown in) are all great, but you may be thinking that it doesn't offer you much of a chance to talk or reconnect, which is one of the main reasons of going on a date. Your challenge? Find a spot along the way to pull off and take some fun pictures. With a beautiful backdrop it doesn't matter what time of day your doing this, morning, noon, or night, ahem, dusk (let's be honest, night pictures just don't really turn out :). Have fun! Take some corny/cute ones, take some silly ones, go splashing in the ocean; sometimes the chance just to goof off together and laugh together does more than any conversation ever could. Besides, you'll have some great pictures to look back on and talk about later. Most of all, just enjoy yourselves! 

On a separate note, this is also a great activity with the littles, should you have them!

* Here are two options for bike rentals, but as always, I encourage you to find the best fit for you!

• http://www.perryscafe.com/12-locations.html
• http://danielsbikerentals.com

A Weekend Getaway

Need a break from the big city? This date idea is for those who have a day or two to spend to get away from it all; while Los Angeles holds innumerable amazing date ideas, just outside its borders are many natural beauties untold. One of these beauties happens to be Sequoia National Park, located just outside of Visalia; this national park is not to be missed. Sequoias are some of the largest trees in the world, growing upwards of 200 feet and 30-40 feet across. While that sounds big in writing, it’s nothing compared to seeing them up close!

This date is all about getting back to nature and includes camping at the KOA campground just outside the park, outfitted with camping spots as well as cabins for those who prefer more solid shelter. This campground offers a great respite from the day’s activities with BBQs, a pool, and friendly fellow campers, you’re sure to enjoy your time (please note that there are many campgrounds in the area offering varying amenities, further research may help you find one most suitable to your specific needs) .

While in the park itself, spend the day checking out the General Grant and General Sherman, the sequoias with the largest diameter and mass, respectively, make your way to the fire look out at Buck Rock (an off road adventure), and chow down on some grub from one of the local lodges. Filled with hikes and picturesque car time, this date is sure to bring you and your spouse closer. Take advantage of this together time and share about other beautiful places you’ve been, or other trips that you’ve taken together.

Enjoy the beauties together, and be awestruck as you drink in the sights of this incredible place!

More information on availability and amenities of the Visalia KOA campground:

http://koa.com/campgrounds/visalia/

More information on Sequoia National Park:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sequoia_National_Park

Griffith Observatory

A night view of Griffith Observatory.
Photo Credit: Ron Reiring via flickr

Griffith Park is a beloved hangout of many Angelinos and a landmark of the city. At the top of Griffith Park sits Griffith Observatory, a beautiful building with magnificent views overlooking Los Angeles. While here you can look through telescopes, learn about the cosmos, go to a show in the planetarium, and get a breathtaking view of the big city, and the best part is admission is free! Come prepared to explore new horizons and travel to galaxies far, far away. 

For the latest shows and show times please visit:

http://www.griffithobservatory.org

Perhaps you could plan your date to fall on the one Saturday a month that Griffith Observatory offers a free star party. After gazing through the telescopes you can return your views earthwards as you and your date look out over the immense city of Los Angeles. Wrap up the evening doing the wonder intimacy exercise from the The Marriage First Aid Kit. This entails making a list of sentences all starting with the phrase, “I wonder…” and then sharing them with your spouse (as you both promise to listen without judgement). While this many feel a little funny or awkward at first, you may be surprised at what you find out are some hope, dreams, or thoughts that are on your spouse's mind.